Trending-skills ex-skill-distill

```markdown

install

source · Clone the upstream repo

git clone https://github.com/Aradotso/trending-skills

Claude Code · Install into ~/.claude/skills/

T=$(mktemp -d) && git clone --depth=1 https://github.com/Aradotso/trending-skills "$T" && mkdir -p ~/.claude/skills && cp -r "$T/skills/ex-skill-distill" ~/.claude/skills/aradotso-trending-skills-ex-skill-distill && rm -rf "$T"

manifest: skills/ex-skill-distill/SKILL.md

source content

---
name: ex-skill-distill
description: Distill an ex-partner into an AI Skill using chat logs, photos, and descriptions — generates a persona-driven conversational skill that talks like them.
triggers:
  - create an ex skill
  - distill my ex into an AI
  - generate ex partner skill
  - build a persona from chat logs
  - make my ex talk like an AI
  - create ex-partner memory skill
  - run create-ex skill
  - install ex skill from chat history
---

# ex-skill (前任.skill)

> Skill by [ara.so](https://ara.so) — Daily 2026 Skills collection.

Distill a real ex-partner into a Claude Code AI Skill using their chat logs (WeChat/QQ), social media screenshots, photos, and your own descriptions. The generated skill talks with their vocabulary, replies in their style, remembers shared places and jokes, and reacts emotionally the way they did.

---

## Install

```bash
# Per-project (run from git repo root)
mkdir -p .claude/skills
git clone https://github.com/therealXiaomanChu/ex-partner-skill .claude/skills/create-ex

# Global (available in all projects)
git clone https://github.com/therealXiaomanChu/ex-partner-skill ~/.claude/skills/create-ex

# Optional Python deps
pip3 install -r ~/.claude/skills/create-ex/requirements.txt

Core Concepts

Each generated ex Skill has two parts:

Part	Contents
Part A — Relationship Memory	Dates, inside jokes, fight patterns, timelines, shared places
Part B — Persona	5-layer structure: hard rules → identity → speech style → emotional patterns → relationship behavior

Runtime logic:

receive message
  → Persona: how would they respond?
  → Memory: what shared context applies?
  → Output in their voice

Create a Skill

In Claude Code:

/create-ex

You'll be prompted for:

Slug — short codename (e.g.
```
xiaoman
```
,
```
lily2019
```
)
Basic info — age, city, how long you dated
Personality tags — MBTI, zodiac, attachment style, love language
Data sources — chat export files, screenshots, photos, or plain text

All fields are optional. Description alone is enough to generate.

Supported Data Sources

Source	Format	Notes
WeChat chat logs	WeChatMsg / PyWxDump / 留痕 export	Richest signal
QQ chat logs	`.txt` / `.mht` export	Good for student-era relationships
Social media	Screenshots (朋友圈/微博)	Public persona extraction
Photos	JPEG/PNG with EXIF	Timeline + location extraction
Plain text	Paste or describe	Memory-only mode

Export Tools (third-party, not included)

WeChatMsg — WeChat export (Windows)
PyWxDump — WeChat DB decrypt (Windows)
留痕 — WeChat export (macOS)

Slash Commands

Command	Description
`/create-ex`	Interactive wizard to create a new ex Skill
`/list-exes`	List all generated ex Skills
`/{slug}`	Full conversational Skill — talk to them
`/{slug}-memory`	Memory mode — recall shared experiences
`/{slug}-persona`	Persona-only view
`/ex-rollback {slug} {version}`	Roll back to a previous version
`/delete-ex {slug}`	Delete an ex Skill
`/let-go {slug}`	Gentle alias for delete

Python Tools (direct usage)

Parse WeChat export

from tools.wechat_parser import WeChatParser

parser = WeChatParser("path/to/wechat_export.csv")
messages = parser.parse()
# Returns list of {timestamp, sender, content, type}
print(messages[:5])

Parse QQ export

from tools.qq_parser import QQParser

parser = QQParser("path/to/qq_export.txt")
messages = parser.parse()

Analyze photos (EXIF extraction)

from tools.photo_analyzer import PhotoAnalyzer

analyzer = PhotoAnalyzer("path/to/photos/")
timeline = analyzer.extract_timeline()
# Returns [{date, location, filename}, ...]

Write/update a Skill

from tools.skill_writer import SkillWriter

writer = SkillWriter(slug="xiaoman")
writer.write_memory(memory_dict)   # saves exes/xiaoman/memory.md
writer.write_persona(persona_dict) # saves exes/xiaoman/persona.md
writer.write_skill()               # generates SKILL.md

Version management

from tools.version_manager import VersionManager

vm = VersionManager(slug="xiaoman")
vm.snapshot("v2")           # archive current version
vm.list_versions()          # ['v1', 'v2']
vm.rollback("v1")           # restore v1

Generated Skill Structure

.claude/skills/create-ex/
├── SKILL.md                    # Entry point
├── prompts/
│   ├── intake.md               # Interactive intake dialog
│   ├── memory_analyzer.md      # Relationship memory extraction
│   ├── persona_analyzer.md     # Personality/behavior extraction
│   ├── memory_builder.md       # memory.md template
│   ├── persona_builder.md      # 5-layer persona template
│   ├── merger.md               # Incremental merge logic
│   └── correction_handler.md  # In-conversation correction
├── tools/
│   ├── wechat_parser.py
│   ├── qq_parser.py
│   ├── social_parser.py
│   ├── photo_analyzer.py
│   ├── skill_writer.py
│   └── version_manager.py
├── exes/                       # Generated skills (gitignored)
│   └── {slug}/
│       ├── SKILL.md
│       ├── memory.md
│       └── persona.md
└── requirements.txt

Persona Tag Reference

Attachment types: 安全型 · 焦虑型 · 回避型 · 混乱型
Love languages: Words of affirmation · Quality time · Gifts · Acts of service · Physical touch
MBTI: All 16 types — affects communication style and decision patterns
Zodiac: All 12 signs — influences personality tag translation rules

Personality tags (select any):

话痨 · 闷骚 · 嘴硬心软 · 冷暴力 · 粘人 · 独立
已读不回 · 秒回选手 · 半夜发语音 · 朋友圈三天可见
报复性熬夜 · 完美主义 · 拖延症 · 控制欲 · 没有安全感

Updating a Skill

Add more chat logs

/create-ex
# Choose "update existing" and provide slug
# New data is merged via merger.md logic — no overwrite

Correct behavior in-conversation

While talking to

/{slug}

用户: ta不会这样说话

The correction is written to a

Correction

layer in

persona.md

and takes effect immediately.

Example Conversations

Daily chat (

/xiaoman

You    ❯ 在干嘛
Skill  ❯ 刚吃完饭 在刷手机
          你呢 怎么突然找我
          [发了个表情包]

Memory mode (

/xiaoman-memory

You    ❯ 还记得我们第一次约会吗
Skill  ❯ 就那个超难吃的意面吗哈哈哈哈
          你还假装很好吃 我都看出来了
          那家店后来倒闭了你知道吗

Late night (

/xiaoman

You    ❯ 我有点想你
Skill  ❯ ...
          嗯
          早点睡吧

Tips for Best Results

Chat log quality determines accuracy: WeChat export + description > description only
Best signal priority: Late-night chats > fight records > everyday messages
Minimum viable input: A single paragraph description still produces a working persona
Use
```
/ex-rollback
```
if a correction makes things worse
After adding photo EXIF data, memory.md gains a timeline — conversations become more specific

Troubleshooting

/create-ex

not found
→ Confirm clone landed in

.claude/skills/create-ex/

(not a subfolder). The

SKILL.md

must be at

.claude/skills/create-ex/SKILL.md

WeChat parser returns empty
→ Check export format. WeChatMsg CSV uses UTF-8-BOM; pass

encoding='utf-8-sig'

or re-export with留痕 (macOS) for cleaner output.

Photos not yielding locations
→ Many modern phones strip EXIF GPS on upload. Use original camera roll files, not re-downloaded social media images.

Persona feels generic
→ Add fight records or late-night conversations — those carry the most behavioral signal. Run update flow.

Rollback not working
→ Snapshots only exist if you called

vm.snapshot()

or used

/ex-rollback

after a previous update. Check

exes/{slug}/versions/

Ethics & Privacy

All data stays local — nothing is sent anywhere except your configured LLM provider
```
exes/
```
is gitignored by default — do not commit it
This project is for personal reflection and emotional processing only
Do not use to harass, track, or contact real people
If you find yourself over-attached to the simulation, please seek real support